Dear Zoe, I took your advice and just wanted to say thanks. I met a seriously fun girl and we are now looking for another to join us. Keep up the great work! - Daniel, New York.

After months of messing about and getting no place I read your tutorial and crossed my number 1 fantasy off my list. Holly $%&^, what an amazing night! - Mr X, Europe

First off I can tell you that girls really do think about other girls. Guys are great for the animal attraction and taking control and girls are the best at knowing how other girls work, what turns them on and being soft and gentle. Adding both of these together at the same time is a serious turn on. If any girls tells you she has never thought about going with another girl she is almost certainly not telling the truth.

However making a 3 sum happen is not easy (unless you read on). You cannot ask your girl friend, she may be interested but it is not good for your relationship (unless she is very open minded). You cannot go out to a club and expect to meet 2 girls, I can imagine some times it can be hard to get just one.

The best method is to get yourself a female fuck buddy (a relationship just based on wild sex). Even if you don't get as far as the 3 sum, a fuck buddy can be just as much fun. Again, finding this person is not easy in the real world. It is not as if you can go to a girl at work and ask if she would like a relationship with you based on great sex (although you never know!). To get this girl you need to use a dating site on the internet, you need a site that has open minded people looking for fun and not for wedding bells and children. Once you have your fuck buddy you need to meet and get to know each other. This is great fun, no strings sex and you can experiment and ask each other anything. I have had a few of these relationships over the years and you just learn so much. All the things that you fantasize about but were too scared to ask. Anything goes, it is very liberating! Then approach the 3 sum with your new friend. I'm sure she will agree and you can use a dating site once again to get the second girl. A single girl is much more likley to join a couple than two strangers.

So Zoe, where do I start I hear you ask. I would recommend a site called AdultFriendFinder.com. It is a world wide site for adult dating. To start off people are not looking for weddings or just to chat about nothing in particular. They have millions of members sorted by country and then by region. You can then search age and lots of other things!

Here are a couple of examples from the search system. You can see what the girls are looking for and where they are located. Most importantly you can see how long ago they were last online so you know they are regular visitors.

You can do all this for free, with no strings or catches. If you find some people you would like to chat to then you can join as a paid member. This costs a few dollars a month and then you can make contact, web-cams, live chat or exchange email addresses. You do have to pay to make contact but you can join for free to make sure there are people you like. Also, with it being a pay site there are no time wasters or kids messing about!

To get your free account today and see what it is like click the banner below: If you have trouble seeing the banner click HERE. Most importantly, when you get your 3 sum or even just your fuck buddy, leave a message in the forum and tell us all what you got up to!

Luv Zoe x x x